Parish Pastoral Council and Mission Fulfillment Discernment Gatherings

Canon 536 of the Code of Canon Law provides for the creation of parish pastoral councils.  At OLMC, our Pastoral Council charter is based on the Diocesan model.  Its role is described as follows:

The Parish Pastoral Council is consultative.  Its areas of concern include: (1) Education ─ Parochial School and/or Religious Education (2) Liturgy (3) Social Action and Charitable Outreach (4) Youth and Young Adults (5) Marriage and Family Life (6) Priestly and Religious Vocations (7) Ecumenical and Interreligious Cooperation and (8) Parish Activities and Events.   Its responsibilities include: (1) Engaging parishioners in the spiritual and pastoral life of the parish; (2) Collaborating with the pastor in providing direction and oversight for all pastoral aspects of parish life; (3) Reviewing the pastoral policies of the diocese for parish implementation; (4) Establishing pastoral priorities with goals and objectives.

Since the beginning of my pastoral service here in 2012, OLMC has had an active Pastoral Council which usually meets four times per year.  In the early years, the Pastoral Council discerned the parish mission statement and motto and prioritized evangelization, from which the Good Life retreat came. The Pastoral Council discerned that OLMC should get involved in the Save PQ Village outreach.  In recent years, the Pastoral Council conducted a parish survey and discerned the priority of Young Adult ministry which led to a renewed effort by parish staff and volunteers in this area.

Normally, I would invite some involved parishioners to serve on the Pastoral Council based on their qualities of character and spirituality and to represent various segments of the parish.  Last year I asked the heads of various ministries to nominate members of their ministry and the process resulted in an excellent group.  You can see who they are here: https://www.olmcsandiego.org/pastoral-council-2021

The universal and local Church has, under the name synodality, held various meetings to help the Church become more listening, inclusive, and to engage more of the lay faithful in decision making.  We participated in that process and now are taking another step with a series of meetings called Mission Fulfillment Discernment Gatherings. These will take place as follows:

Sat April 20, 2-4pm

Sun April 21 after 1:15pm Spanish mass for Hispanic community

Th May 2, 7-9pm

The questions that will be considered are: How well is OLMC fulfilling its Mission? How have you been blessed here?  What could be done better?  How can we all take greater responsibility to achieve our mission?

I encourage you to participate in one of these gatherings.  The Pastoral Council will be facilitating these meetings.  I would like to see the members of the Pastoral Council have a more prominent role in parish leadership.  You likely know or at least recognize one or more of them.  Please feel free to say hello to them if you see them after Mass.  The Pastoral Council can be contacted by email, which is posted at the link above. 

Thanks be to God for Fr. Ignatius

Fr. Ignatius has been assigned to pastor St. Martin of Tours parish in La Mesa starting on July 1st. Fr. Ignatius began his service at OLMC in 2014, and with the exception of one year at another parish, he has been with us since then.

We have been greatly blessed to have Fr. Ignatius with us for so long. He is a faithful and joyful priest with the heart of the Good Shepherd. He has helped us to better understand and apply the word of God and prayerfully ministered the Sacraments through which souls were born again, nourished, healed, and strengthened. His humor, joy, and kindness have helped so many of you to experience the goodness of the Lord. God has decided it is time for our brothers and sisters in another parish to be blessed by his priestly ministry.

I will miss him very much. We have collaborated well in our work and gotten along well as housemates in the rectory. Most of that is due to his uncomplaining and generous nature.

Fr. Ignatius has served before as a pastor of several parishes in Kenya, but this will be his first pastorate in the U.S. People help to form their priests, and I know that the love and cooperation you have given him has prepared him to assume his new responsibility.

OLMC will receive another associate pastor, but we have to wait a little while to announce that.

Please be sure to express your gratitude to Fr. Ignatius and pray for him in this time of transition. We will be having a going away party for him in June.

Care for Our Parish Home

It has been so gratifying to see the happy reactions to our new Discipleship Center. Having a new, beautiful building makes one more conscious of the responsibility to take care of it. This is connected with an ongoing issue of unsupervised children on campus. Please be aware that it is OLMC policy that children on campus must be supervised at all times by a parent, guardian, or mature older sibling.

I am overjoyed that so many families in this parish have been generous in receiving children from God. It is a sacrifice that benefits not only the family to which they belong, but it also benefits society and the Church. Part of forming our children in virtue is teaching them respect for property.

The first Sunday after the Discipleship Center was open, several children were playing in the new building without supervision. They were riding the elevator like an amusement park ride. The elevator should only be used for people who need it to move between floors.

We have had incidents of children damaging parish property, including using berries from the bushes and defacing the columns in the courtyard.

Regularly, volunteers have to repair broken hymnal binding because the hymnals are roughly handled, often by children. Also, volunteers spend many hours untying knots that are made with hymnal ribbons and straightening out the envelopes in the pews.

Please take care of our parish home and let us teach our children to respect the property which we share.

Blessing Same-Sex Couples

Yesterday, the Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith (“DDF) released a declaration (Fiducia supplicans “FS”) which discusses the possibility of blessing couples in irregular situations and same-sex couples. The Pillar has an accurate summary (with a link to the full text of the declaration) here.

FS has received massive attention in international media as well as widely varying interpretations of what it says and doesn’t say. Based on my reading, the text contains significant ambiguities and internal contradictions; hence, the varying interpretations.

Just two and half years ago, the same DDF issued a shorter, clearer, and more faithful document on the same matter. You can read the full text of that document here. My own understanding of God’s will in this matter is expressed in this Responsum.

Any action that affirms people in a sinful lifestyle is not loving because it does not work for their objective good. I am happy to pray with any individual who asks for prayer, but I will never bless sinful relationships.

Defend Pregnancy Centers

UPDATE: County Supervisor Terra Lawson-Remer has withdrawn the proposed action against crisis pregnancy centers in San Diego. Thank you for your prayers and advocacy.

San Diego County Bill Aims to Shut Down Pregnancy Centers: Call to Action to Defend County Crisis Pregnancy Centers  

On November 7, 2023 County Supervisor Terra Lawson-Remer introduced a bill to the County Supervisors’ Board that directs litigation to shut down all crisis pregnancy centers in San Diego County.  She accused crisis pregnancy centers of being “Fake and Fraudulent Crisis Pregnancy Centers” that use “deceptive methods to dissuade women from pursuing abortion by providing blatant misinformation presented as medical advice.”   She also calls for a public “education campaign” to raise public awareness of state-sponsored abortion programs and endorse Planned Parenthood’s services.  

Crisis pregnancy centers provide a variety of free medical and non-medical services depending on the specific center.  Services range from free licensed professional medical care, ultrasounds, pregnancy testing and referrals for additional care to non-medical services like assistance with food, rent, gasoline, assistance with job and school applications, parenting classes, and baby items such as diapers, clothing, car seats, and cribs.  Support for other family members needs’ is also common, especially school-aged siblings and elderly family members. 

Supervisor Lawson-Remer’s accusations are not based on any supporting data, evidence, or complaints against crisis pregnancy centers.  She admitted there have been no investigations.  Threatening litigation and closure of all county crisis pregnancy centers without any supporting evidence is clearly unjust.  At the least it harasses these valuable organizations.  Fighting litigation will divert valuable resources away from clients and toward expenses of defending themselves.  At worst, and likely the goal, is to eliminate alternatives to abortion, thus forcing abortion on unwilling women and their families who depend on pregnancy centers’ supportive resources. 

This proposal was presented at the November 7 County Supervisor’s Board meeting and was tabled until the next meeting on December 5 due to a 2-2 tie vote on whether to accept it.  While there was very strong opposition from the public via the public comments process, crisis pregnancy centers remain at risk of attack.  Since the November 7th meeting, Monica Montgomery Steppe was elected to the Board and is known to be pro-abortion.  This is Agenda Item 25 of the Dec. 5 meeting.  

Urgent and immediate action is needed to protect crisis pregnancy centers against this unjust and deceptive action.  While there was significant opposition expressed by the public on November 7, the momentum can drop in the weeks until the December 5th meeting.  Actions: 1) pray and fast for justice and protection for crisis pregnancy centers, 2) communicate your opposition by contacting your county supervisor’s office, submitting e-comments, and attending the December 5th meeting virtually or in person.  How to participate: 

Contact the County Supervisors:

· Call the Bill’s author, Supervisor Lawson-Remer’s office with your opposition. Her number is 619-531-5533

· Call your Supervisor.  If you don’t know who your Supervisor is, click here: https://www.sandiegocounty.gov/general/bos.html.html

Comment.  Please be respectful; negative comments lose their impact. To comment on the Agenda in person, phone, or online register here:
https://www.sandiegocounty.gov/content/sdc/bos/comment-at-board-meetings.html

How to participate in person in the Board Chambers at 1600 Pacific Highway during the Board hearing which is 9am-5pm:
https://www.sandiegocounty.gov/content/sdc/cob/bosa/aginfo.html.  The time each item is discussed varies. 

If individuals wanted to call in by following these instructions:
https://www.sandiegocounty.gov/content/sdc/bos/telecomments.html.

E-Comments are welcome:
https://www.sandiegocounty.gov/content/sdc/bos/ecomment.html as well as letters of opposition that you can submit directly to share with the other Board offices.

Please also consider attending this Dec. 4 Mira Mesa Meet & Greet with Supervisor Lawson-Remer.

Traffic Light Woes

We just celebrated All Saints and All Souls Day. The Masses were beautiful, but unfortunately, many of you had difficulty getting to the church. That is because during many weekday hours, the left turn signal of the traffic light at the corner of Carmel Mountain Rd. and Stoney Creek Rd. only turns green for about seven seconds, allowing only four cars to pass at a time. For big events, like Holy Day Masses, hundreds of cars arrive at that intersection within a 15-20 minute window of time.

A while back, the City resurfaced parts of Carmel Mountain Rd. After this work, the sensors at the traffic signal stopped working. We have contacted the City of San Diego Transportation Department many times about this, and they have not told us when this will be fixed.

I am asking your help. Please consider doing the following:

(1) Report this issue through the City’s website: https://getitdone.sandiego.gov/TSWNewReport?type=Traffic%20Signal. I am hoping the old adage “the squeaky wheel gets the grease” will apply here. In selecting the type of problem, select timing. For description, you can write that the left turn signal onto Stoney Creek is too short when there are church events.

(2) If you have connections with any decision makers in City Government, please reach out to our business manager Michelle Fischer (mfischer@olmc-sandiego.org) to facilitate a conversation with them about this.

(3) Until it gets fixed, you may want to alter your route to the parish to enter by making a right turn at that intersection for busy weekday events.

We are also looking into hiring off-duty police to direct traffic for certain events. This is expensive. For All Saints Mass on the evening of Nov. 1, I happened to see a couple of on-duty police officers and they graciously directed traffic.

On a related note, the impact of construction on traffic flow within our parking lot will soon decrease be done. The project is scheduled to be completed before Christmas.

Thank you for your patience with these inconveniences.

In Christ,

Fr. Anthony Saroki

Pray for the Church and the World

Many people have a sense that things in our Church and world are unraveling.  From the COVID epidemic, the responses to it, controversy over the 2020 election, the war between Russia and Ukraine, the confusing Synod in the Church, to the Hamas terrorist attack against Israelis.  The death and suffering of so many cause us sadness.  Hatred and deceit on the part of some cause us anger.  My own discernment is that these are harbingers of greater trials in the future.  Do not be afraid.  Our refuge is in the Lord to Whom we pray in confidence for salvation.    

I ask all of you (if you are able) to fast from food for a period of time tomorrow, October 13th.  The picture above is from the Miracle of the Sun that took place in Fatima on October 13, 1917. Fridays are traditionally days of penance to commemorate the Passion and Death of the Lord Jesus.  This might mean not eating your first meal until after 12 noon, or skipping a meal in the middle of the day.  Voluntarily uniting our suffering to His helps to extend the redemptive power of the Cross through time and space.

October 13th at 7pm is our regularly scheduled Encounter prayer night.  We will pray for the needs of the Church and the world, including the Divine Mercy Chaplet.  Confessions will begin at 6:30pm and continue through the Encounter.  Our time is better spent together in prayer than in doom scrolling through the news feeds. 

A Flood of Grace

This past weekend we celebrated beautiful First Communion and Confirmation Masses. The church was packed, the sacrament recipients were excited and prayerful, their families overjoyed. Years of formation and preparation culminated in a deepening of the life of grace which unites and conforms us to our Lord. This Sunday, our Hispanic community will celebrate First Communion, bringing the total number of first communicants to 96, our largest class ever. Seventy nine teens and adults were confirmed, making it one of our larger Confirmation classes.

The Easter Season ends with the celebration of Pentecost this weekend. For the first time, we will use the extended vigil readings at the Saturday, 5:30pm Mass. While we return to ordinary time on Monday, the following Sundays celebrate special feasts. Sunday, June 4th, is the Solemnity of the Holy Trinity. Our Holy Trinity prayer group will be hosting a reception (open to all) after the 4:30pm Mass that day. June 11 is the Solemnity of the Body and Blood of Christ. The 4:30pm Mass that day will include a Eucharistic procession in the parking lot.

May 31st is the Feast of the Visitation. The 5:30pm Mass will be celebrated in what we call Benedict XVI style, with Gregorian chant and other traditional elements. We started these after parish study sessions on the late Pope’s book, The Spirit of the Liturgy. We celebrate these about once per month, and I hope at some point every parishioner has an opportunity to participate in one of these BXVI Masses.

God has blessed us abundantly in the gift of the Sacraments. May our manner of life reflect what we receive and celebrate.

Easter Season

During the Easter Season, we reflect on the many Resurrection appearances of our Lord, look forward to his Ascension and the outpouring of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost, and remember the adventures of the apostles as they reproduced the life of Christ in building up His body, the Church.

Last weekend, members of our parish conducted a Good Life retreat for St. Timothy’s parish in Escondido. Through preaching, prayer, conversation, and hospitality, the attendees experienced the Spirit of the Risen Lord. We’ll be having another Good Life retreat at OLMC in October.

This weekend, we will be collecting men’s clothing for the homeless, which our Confirmation candidates will sort and send. Details here. Also this weekend, we will hear again about the Oaxaca Education fund, and you’ll be invited to enroll mothers you love, living and deceased, in the Mother’s Day Novena of Masses, with proceeds going to help the youth of Oaxaca.

The Church of Christ is built as we cooperate with his grace by faith and charity. But having physical buildings helps. Here is a time lapsed video of the first part of construction of our new Discipleship Center. As typical with any large construction projects, unanticipated problems and expenses arise. Your prayer and donations are greatly appreciated.

Christ is risen….He is risen, indeed!

Night Prayer and Other Noteworthy Things

NIGHT PRAYER (COMPLINE). Scott and I have prepared resources to help your family pray together the last part of the Divine Office, called night prayer or compline. Watch the video below to find out more. Printed booklets can be picked up at the parish office during normal office hours.

VATICAN II: This past Tuesday, I began a series on the Second Vatican Council. Below is the recording of my first talk. Remaining talks be on Tuesdays at 7:15pm in the parish hall. To fully participate, you should read in advance the Vatican II document which will be discussed, which are as follows: March 21, The Sacred Liturgy (Sacrosanctum Concilium), March 28, On the Church (Lumen Gentium), April 11, The Word of God (Dei Verbum), and April 18, The Church in the Modern World (Gaudium et Spes). All of these are available online at the Vatican’s website, or can be purchased in an excellent print edition here.

JP CATHOLIC RADIO INTERVIEWS: JP Catholic Radio is broadcasting a series of interviews where I talk with special guests about their spiritual journey. More information about these can be found here.

SEX ABUSE LAWSUITS AND CONTEMPLATED BANKRUPTCY REORGANIZATION OF THE DIOCESE. Cardinal McElroy’s letter to pastors can be found here and FAQ’s can be found here.

An Introduction to the Writings of Pope Benedict XVI

As the Church lays to rest the mortal remains of Pope Benedict XVI, gives thanks to God for his life and service, and prays for his peaceful repose, I would like to recommend certain of his writings for your edification.  The first four writings are available online, and I have linked to them. I have also included some quotations from these as a sampling if you do not have time now to read them in their entirety.

Homily at the Conclave to Elect the Successor of Pope St. John Paul II.  The death of JP II elicited an outpouring of emotion and recognition that one of the leading lights of the 20th century had departed this world.  Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger was responsible for convening the meeting of the Cardinals to elect the next pope.  He presided and preached at the Mass for the election of the Roman Pontiff and delivered a wise, beautiful, and prophetic homily.  I remember reading it in my seminary dorm room and praying earnestly for Cardinal Ratzinger to be the next Pope.  When he was elected, my seminary classmates and I were overjoyed. 

Today, having a clear faith based on the Creed of the Church is often labeled as fundamentalism. Whereas relativism, that is, letting oneself be "tossed here and there, carried about by every wind of doctrine," seems the only attitude that can cope with modern times. We are building a dictatorship of relativism that does not recognize anything as definitive and whose ultimate goal consists solely of one's own ego and desires.

We, however, have a different goal: the Son of God, the true man. He is the measure of true humanism. An "adult" faith is not a faith that follows the trends of fashion and the latest novelty; a mature adult faith is deeply rooted in friendship with Christ. It is this friendship that opens us up to all that is good and gives us a criterion by which to distinguish the true from the false, and deceit from truth.

Yet, in spite of this, the Lord calls us friends, he makes us his friends, he gives us his friendship. The Lord gives friendship a dual definition. There are no secrets between friends: Christ tells us all that he hears from the Father; he gives us his full trust and with trust, also knowledge. He reveals his face and his heart to us. He shows us the tenderness he feels for us, his passionate love that goes even as far as the folly of the Cross. He entrusts himself to us, he gives us the power to speak in his name: "this is my body,” “I forgive you.” He entrusts his Body, the Church, to us.

The second element Jesus uses to define friendship is the communion of wills. For the Romans "Idem velle — idem nolle" [same desires, same dislikes] was also the definition of friendship. "You are my friends if you do what I command you" (Jn 15:14). Friendship with Christ coincides with the third request of the Our Father: "Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven". At his hour in the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus transformed our rebellious human will into a will conformed and united with the divine will. He suffered the whole drama of our autonomy — and precisely by placing our will in God's hands, he gives us true freedom: "Not as I will, but as you will" (Mt 26:39).

Our redemption is brought about in this communion of wills: being friends of Jesus, to become friends of God. The more we love Jesus, the more we know him, the more our true freedom develops and our joy in being redeemed flourishes. Thank you, Jesus, for your friendship!

Deus Caritas Est (God is love).  The first encyclical of Pope Benedict was on the greatest of the theological virtues: charity.  I had understood for years that God is agape, a selfless, self-sacrificing love.  What surprised and amazed me in reading this encyclical was Benedicts assertion that God is also eros, romantic love.  He desires union with us.  Benedict explains how eros needs to be purified by agape. 

Did Christianity really destroy eros? Let us take a look at the pre- Christian world. The Greeks—not unlike other cultures—considered eros principally as a kind of intoxication, the overpowering of reason by a “divine madness” which tears man away from his finite existence and enables him, in the very process of being overwhelmed by divine power, to experience supreme happiness. 

An intoxicated and undisciplined eros, then, is not an ascent in “ecstasy” towards the Divine, but a fall, a degradation of man. Evidently, eros needs to be disciplined and purified if it is to provide not just fleeting pleasure, but a certain foretaste of the pinnacle of our existence, of that beatitude for which our whole being yearns.

Concretely, what does this path of ascent and purification entail? How might love be experienced so that it can fully realize its human and divine promise? Here we can find a first, important indication in the Song of Songs, an Old Testament book well known to the mystics. According to the interpretation generally held today, the poems contained in this book were originally love-songs, perhaps intended for a Jewish wedding feast and meant to exalt conjugal love….Love now becomes concern and care for the other. No longer is it self-seeking, a sinking in the intoxication of happiness; instead it seeks the good of the beloved: it becomes renunciation and it is ready, and even willing, for sacrifice.

It is part of love's growth towards higher levels and inward purification that it now seeks to become definitive, and it does so in a twofold sense: both in the sense of exclusivity (this particular person alone) and in the sense of being “for ever”. Love embraces the whole of existence in each of its dimensions, including the dimension of time. It could hardly be otherwise, since its promise looks towards its definitive goal: love looks to the eternal. Love is indeed “ecstasy”, not in the sense of a moment of intoxication, but rather as a journey, an ongoing exodus out of the closed inward-looking self towards its liberation through self-giving, and thus towards authentic self-discovery and indeed the discovery of God: “Whoever seeks to gain his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life will preserve it” (Lk 17:33), as Jesus says throughout the Gospels (cf. Mt 10:39; 16:25; Mk 8:35; Lk 9:24; Jn 12:25).

Spe Salvi (Saved in Hope).  This second encyclical of Pope Benedict XVI examines the theological virtue of hope.  For me, it is his greatest work.  He begins by explaining the distinction and relation between faith and hope.  He illustrates hope through the life of St. Josephine Bakhita and explains how hope in the Resurrection fueled the growth of Christianity at the beginnings. The deeply insightful accounts of eternal life, judgment, heaven, hell, and purgatory are the best I have encountered.  Other topics addressed are the social dimension of salvation, the various false hopes given by science and political ideologies, and the meaning of suffering. 

In some way we want life itself, true life, untouched even by death; yet at the same time we do not know the thing towards which we feel driven. We cannot stop reaching out for it, and yet we know that all we can experience or accomplish is not what we yearn for. This unknown “thing” is the true “hope” which drives us, and at the same time the fact that it is unknown is the cause of all forms of despair and also of all efforts, whether positive or destructive, directed towards worldly authenticity and human authenticity. The term “eternal life” is intended to give a name to this known “unknown”. Inevitably it is an inadequate term that creates confusion. “Eternal”, in fact, suggests to us the idea of something interminable, and this frightens us; “life” makes us think of the life that we know and love and do not want to lose, even though very often it brings more toil than satisfaction, so that while on the one hand we desire it, on the other hand we do not want it. To imagine ourselves outside the temporality that imprisons us and in some way to sense that eternity is not an unending succession of days in the calendar, but something more like the supreme moment of satisfaction, in which totality embraces us and we embrace totality—this we can only attempt. It would be like plunging into the ocean of infinite love, a moment in which time—the before and after—no longer exists. We can only attempt to grasp the idea that such a moment is life in the full sense, a plunging ever anew into the vastness of being, in which we are simply overwhelmed with joy. This is how Jesus expresses it in Saint John's Gospel: “I will see you again and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you” (16:22). We must think along these lines if we want to understand the object of Christian hope, to understand what it is that our faith, our being with Christ, leads us to expect

In the twentieth century, Theodor W. Adorno formulated the problem of faith in progress quite drastically: he said that progress, seen accurately, is progress from the sling to the atom bomb. Now this is certainly an aspect of progress that must not be concealed. To put it another way: the ambiguity of progress becomes evident. Without doubt, it offers new possibilities for good, but it also opens up appalling possibilities for evil—possibilities that formerly did not exist. We have all witnessed the way in which progress, in the wrong hands, can become and has indeed become a terrifying progress in evil. If technical progress is not matched by corresponding progress in man's ethical formation, in man's inner growth (cf. Eph 3:16; 2 Cor 4:16), then it is not progress at all, but a threat for man and for the world.

Let us summarize what has emerged so far in the course of our reflections. Day by day, man experiences many greater or lesser hopes, different in kind according to the different periods of his life. Sometimes one of these hopes may appear to be totally satisfying without any need for other hopes. Young people can have the hope of a great and fully satisfying love; the hope of a certain position in their profession, or of some success that will prove decisive for the rest of their lives. When these hopes are fulfilled, however, it becomes clear that they were not, in reality, the whole. It becomes evident that man has need of a hope that goes further. It becomes clear that only something infinite will suffice for him, something that will always be more than he can ever attain….This great hope can only be God, who encompasses the whole of reality and who can bestow upon us what we, by ourselves, cannot attain.

Some recent theologians are of the opinion that the fire which both burns and saves is Christ himself, the Judge and Saviour. The encounter with him is the decisive act of judgement. Before his gaze all falsehood melts away. This encounter with him, as it burns us, transforms and frees us, allowing us to become truly ourselves. All that we build during our lives can prove to be mere straw, pure bluster, and it collapses. Yet in the pain of this encounter, when the impurity and sickness of our lives become evident to us, there lies salvation. His gaze, the touch of his heart heals us through an undeniably painful transformation “as through fire”. But it is a blessed pain, in which the holy power of his love sears through us like a flame, enabling us to become totally ourselves and thus totally of God. In this way the inter-relation between justice and grace also becomes clear: the way we live our lives is not immaterial, but our defilement does not stain us for ever if we have at least continued to reach out towards Christ, towards truth and towards love….The judgement of God is hope, both because it is justice and because it is grace. If it were merely grace, making all earthly things cease to matter, God would still owe us an answer to the question about justice—the crucial question that we ask of history and of God. If it were merely justice, in the end it could bring only fear to us all. The incarnation of God in Christ has so closely linked the two together—judgement and grace—that justice is firmly established: we all work out our salvation “with fear and trembling” (Phil 2:12). Nevertheless grace allows us all to hope, and to go trustfully to meet the Judge whom we know as our “advocate”, or parakletos (cf. 1 Jn 2:1).

Final Address to Clergy of Rome.  This speech was given a few days after Pope Benedict announced his resignation.  In it, he recalls his memories of the Second Vatican Council.  He was a theological advisor at the Council who played a very important role.   He describes important accomplishments of Vatican II and also how its work was distorted by many, resulting in great damage to the Church. 

Jesus of Nazareth, 3 Volume Set.  Pope Benedict wrote this book, while pope, but in the capacity of a personal theologian.  The subject is Jesus in the Gospels.  He engages various positions of biblical scholars, draws upon the Church fathers, history, science, and literature.  He defends the historicity of the Gospels against certain skeptical viewpoints which have greatly undermined Christian faith in the modern world.  He employs what the catechism calls the four senses of Scripture:  literal, allegorical, moral, and anagogical.  I learned more about the meaning of the Gospels by reading these books than I did during four years of graduate seminary studies. 

Spirit of the Liturgy (1999).  This is the best book to understand what worship of God means, why it is important, and how best to worship God as Catholics.  Issues of time and space, posture, art, architecture, and music in relation to the liturgy are discussed.  A few years back I gave a presentation on this book. 

 

Christmas

Dear Parishioner,

Some of our young people gifted me by beautifully singing Christmas carols this week. Just a few days earlier, OLMC staff went caroling in PQ’s Christmas Card Lane. Traditional Christmas carols are rich in meaning, familiar, and comforting. On that silent, holy night, the Savior was given to us. Angels were heard on high by the shepherds, but not many at the time were aware of the significance of the what took place in the little town of Bethlehem, away in a manger.

In a similar way, you have lived your Christian vocation—praying, working, caring for others, building, healing, and creating—without the world taking notice. Through you, God is continuing His work of creation and redemption.

Our Christmas Mass schedule is on the home page of the website. As many will have guests joining them for Mass, please make sure to read this brief post from me so that we can show proper respect to Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament.

Christmas is celebrated for a season, not merely a day. Dr. Michael Barber will be giving a talk on the Christmas season on Tuesday, December 27th at 6pm (following Benediction). Also, be sure to read this liturgical blog post on the Christmas season, which includes some really interesting background on two beloved Christmas carols.

We expect to begin construction of our new discipleship center in January of 2023. It appears that the cost will be about 16% greater than our spring 2021 estimate. Your generous gifts to the offertory and building fund are greatly appreciated. Just a reminder that to count for the 2022 tax year, we need to receive your donation before Dec. 31, 2022. You can make an online donation through this secure portal, and here is information about other ways of making a gift of your treasure. We can take inspiration from the magi who showed their devotion to the newborn king through their gifts.

May the Christ Child bless your family with a wonderful celebration of His birth!

Fr. Anthony Saroki

Monitoring Holy Communion

You may have noticed that ministers of hospitality are now monitoring the reception of Holy Communion. This is being done because in the past, there have been several instances of us finding consecrated hosts in the pews. Apparently, people have taken the hosts and not consumed them. Likely, this has been non-Catholics or non-practicing Catholics who should not be receiving Holy Communion anyways. Or, it may be small children who have not been properly instructed. Of course, it a sacrilege to treat the Body of our Lord with such disregard, although I do not know the thinking of the people responsible for this.

As a reminder to all, please make sure to consume the host before turning back to go to your seats. Otherwise, you will be stopped by the minister of Communion, or the hospitality minister, and be told to consume the host. Also, when you bring guests to Mass, you should have a conversation with them about our beliefs regarding holy Communion. Only believing and practicing Catholics should receive. If you are bringing a Catholic guest who has not been to Mass in awhile, you should ask them to go to confession prior to returning to Communion. We believe that holy Communion is only for Catholics because of our belief in the Real Presence and that receiving Communion indicates shared beliefs and submission to shared authority. In addition, one must be properly disposed spiritually, which means having confessed any mortal sins. Missing Mass without a serious reason is a mortal sin and should be confessed before returning to Communion.

Parish Survey Results

The main subject of this post is to report on the recently completed parish survey. Before that, I want to draw your attention to a couple of things.

  • Discipleship groups are now being formed. These groups learn about the eight habits of a missionary disciple of Jesus Christ and each participant develops a personalized plan of discipleship. For more information, and to apply to join a group, click here.

  • This Sunday, October 23rd, we are having an Oktoberfest celebration at the parish from 5:30pm to 9:00pm. I hope to see you there.

The parish Pastoral Council suggested a simple survey be conducted in connection with the Synod process of the Universal Church.  Since that process did not specifically ask parishioners their thoughts about OLMC, the Council thought it would be helpful to get feedback on that.  The survey used the Survey Monkey platform and was sent to parishioner mobile numbers/email addresses via Flocknote.  The survey was sent on August 6 and had a single question, “Would you recommend OLMC to someone who is looking for a church to join?”  It also had a box to provide comments, and asked if the respondent would be open to being contacted by an OLMC team member to discuss their survey comments. 

The breakdown of responses to the question are as follows:  Of the 322 responses, 278 (86%) said “Definitely Would,” 26 (8%) said “Probably Would,” 11 (4%) said “Not Sure,” 6 (2%) said “Probably Would Not,” and 1 said “Definitely Would Not.”  The Pastoral Council analyzed and discussed the survey. Overall, they thought the survey results were excellent and reflected that parishioners were being well served at OLMC.

Comments could be divided into five main categories: Community, Staff, Doctrine/Teaching, Mass, and Feeling Welcome.  The comments were overwhelmingly positive.  The positive aspects most noted were: (1) Appreciation of Fr. Anthony and Fr. Ignatius, (2) Feeling welcome and the family atmosphere, (3) Conservative doctrine, and (4) Beautiful church and atmosphere.

One positive comment encapsulated many of the others.  “Most vibrant and supportive community I’ve ever been a part of.  The mix of reverence, the availability of the sacraments, charism, and evangelization is unparalleled in most Catholic Churches.  OLMC represents the best of what the current synod hopes to achieve:  there is something for every type of Catholic here: strongly traditional to cerebral/theological to charismatic, you can find community here.”

The Pastoral Council discussed negative comments as well.  A few respondents complained about noisy children at Mass and wanted hospitality ministers to direct them to the cry room.  The Council agreed that the presence of children at Mass was a good thing, that parents were doing their best to care for their children and respect the other members of the congregation, and that the cry room was not a practical option considering the large numbers of families with small children that come to Mass.  There were a couple of complaints of people talking after Mass. 

A few respondents said they felt unwelcome at OLMC, citing what they viewed as a cliquish mentality.  The Council discussed a broader hospitality ministry that would extend to the courtyard after Mass.  I think all of us can be more cognizant of new people we see and make an effort to greet them. 

A few respondents said that the parish was not doing enough to minister to post-Confirmation teens and to young adults.  Since my time as pastor, the staff has made many efforts in this regard; but these have not born much fruit.  Previous efforts fizzled out due to a lack of interest by post-Confirmation teens and young adults and the high turnover in staff who were tasked with ministering to these groups.  The Council members insisted that the parish should renew efforts to engage them.  They discussed how the disengagement of young people was a problem affecting the whole church.  They noted that some Protestant communities (e.g. The Rock) seem to be doing better in this regard.  More effective use of social media, especially short videos, targeted to these age groups, was suggested. 

I agree that we need to make a renewed effort to engage post-Confirmation teens and young adults. I’m currently engaging in a process of consultation and discernment as to the next steps.

I’m going to post this report of the parish survey on the parish Mighty Network so that you can easily post comments and interact with other parishioners. Any questions you post there, directed to me, will be answered.

Christian Unity / Outdoor Sound

Worship Night with Jesus Culture, Thursday, 6/16 @ 7pm

Jesus prayed that all those who believed in him would “be one, as you, Father, are in me and I in you…that the world may believe that you sent me.” (Jn 17:20-21) Division and separation among Christians is contrary to the will of Christ and a stumbling block to unbelievers. The Council Fathers at Vatican II sought a constructive engagement with non-Catholic Christians. While there have been some important steps towards Christian unity, their vision has been largely unrealized.

By God’s providence, OLMC is located next door to two other Christian communities, New Hope and Jesus Culture San Diego. I’ve recently gotten to know the pastor of Jesus Culture San Diego, Zack Curry, through a group of North County Inland pastors who meet monthly.

OLMC is hosting a joint worship event with Jesus Culture San Diego tomorrow at 7pm in our parish church. It is my hope that many of you will attend, and that our common praise of God and time together will help us grow in love and zeal for the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

Outdoor Sound to be Discontinued

Our neighbors have recently expressed their frustration with the projection of sound by our outdoor speakers during weekend Masses. They say it takes away from their quiet enjoyment of their outdoor spaces. They have been very patient with us for the two years in which we have been projecting outdoor sounds. In consideration of their concerns, we will not longer be doing this. To participate in the Mass will mean that you will have to be inside the church when the Mass is celebrated.

Bishop Brom / PQ Village

This morning I participated in the funeral Mass of our late Bishop, Robert Brom. He shepherded the Church in San Diego for twenty three years. As I was waiting with other priests for the procession to begin, I realized the alb I was wearing was a gift from Bishop Brom. He gave it to me when I served as his Master of Ceremonies. The Gospel read at the Mass was the Resurrection appearance of Jesus by the Sea of Tiberius, when Jesus asks Peter three times if he loves him, and when Peter says yes, Jesus entrusts the care of the flock to him. I vividly remember discussing this passage with Bishop Brom right after I was admitted to priestly formation. Msgr. Steve Callahan, a good friend to and collaborator with Bishop Brom, gave a wonderful homily. He talked about some of the favorite sayings of Bishop Brom. I remembered a couple more. “Jesus will never be arrested for forced entry.” This was meant to convey the need for us to accept Jesus and cooperate with His grace. “Only dead bodies float downstream.” This meant that if we are alive in Christ, we need to fight against the current of the world, the flesh, and the devil. Please remember Bishop Brom, and those who miss him the most, in your prayers.

I encourage all parishioners to attend the screening of a documentary, PQ Village, this Saturday, May 21st, at 10am in the parish hall. For those of you who are new to our parish, PQ Village is the name of a 332-unit residential complex for low-income tenants which used to be just down the hill from our parish. In the Spring of 2017, we became aware of a plan to demolish these units and replace them with market-rate units. A large number of parishioners worked with PQ Village residents to oppose this redevelopment. Our advocacy included a petition that garnered 1,149 signatures, rallies and prayer services, speaking at PQ Community Planning Board and San Diego Planning Commission meetings, attracting favorable media coverage on all local news stations, allying with other organizations, contacting and meeting with City Council members and their staff, and much more. Our efforts motivated the owners and developers to make significant concessions. While we were not able to stop the project, we ensured that every tenant had a roof over their head that they could afford and that the new development had much more affordable housing than was originally planned. The documentary film tells some of the stories of the residents.

The Real Fr. Stu

Last night, over fifty OLMC parishioners attended a showing of a new movie about a man named Stuart Long. The movie features Mark Wahlberg and Mel Gibson. Stuart grows up in Montana and is wild and rambunctious. His home life is difficult, especially because his brother Stephen died as a child. Stuart excels in boxing and wins the Golden Glove amateur championship. He tries for years to make it as a professional fighter but a severe jaw injury puts an end to his dreams of boxing glory. He then moves out to Los Angeles to be an actor. Through the influence of a Catholic girlfriend and nearly dying in a motorcycle accident, he comes to believe in God and is baptized a Catholic and then studies for the priesthood. Before priestly ordination, he begins to suffer from the effects of a degenerative muscular disorder. He embraces a call to represent the suffering Christ and powerfully impacts countless people through his priestly ministry.

I enjoyed the movie and thought it was well made. There is a lot of foul language, but the movie’s makers say the purpose is to authentically portray Stuart before his conversion. The scenes showing his struggle with life’s tragedies and disappointments are compelling. Also, his sense of humor and direct manner of speech make the movie interesting throughout. I recommend you see the movie and invite others to do so.

I also think you should get to know more about the real Stuart Long. For dramatic purposes, the movie altered some significant parts of his biography. Fortunately, there are some readily available resources to learn more about this remarkable man.

The first is an video interview of Fr. Stu.

This article by the Pillar is an in depth story about him. You can find a well written obituary of him (written after his death in 2014) here. An the National Catholic register has this article listing nine interesting facts about Fr. Stu.

As I’ve come to learn more about Fr. Stu, two things stand out. The mercy of God that found him when he was lost, and the grace of God that enabled him to suffer well.

This post will be shared on Mighty Network where you can comment on your impressions of the movie and what you have learned about the real Fr. Stuart Long.

Parish Synod and More

  1. Pope Francis is inviting all of the world’s Catholics to participate in a consultation about how the Church journeys with them, invites their authentic communication, listens to their concerns, and promotes their participation in the full life of the Church. This consultation will bring together the people in the pews, clergy, religious and those living on the margins, in a process the Church calls a “synod.” This synod is focused on how the Church engages all of these groups. Our parish is participating in this process at the direction of the Vatican and Bishop McElroy. Parishioners are welcome to attend the parish session on March 20th from 6-8pm in the parish hall. We will pray together, and then in small groups, we will share a little about our joys, disappointments, and hopes regarding the Church. Notes will be taken from the session and forwarded to the Diocese for inclusion in a diocesan report to the Vatican. You must register in advance. Please click here to register.

  2. Last weekend, the clergy invited you to participate in the Annual Catholic Appeal, which supports the mission of our local church. You can listen to Fr. Anthony’s homily on this topic here and you can get more information and donate here.

  3. You will notice that four kneelers have been placed at the front of Communion lines. The normative posture for reception of Holy Communion in the United States is standing, but individual Catholics can rightfully choose to receive kneeling. As an increasing number of parishioners are choosing to kneel, we decided to provide these kneelers. You are free to receive Communion standing or kneeling, in your hands or on your tongue. No judgments should be made about a person based on their chosen way of receiving Communion in accordance with these recognized options.

  4. For many years, Martha Perez served as OLMC’s Director of Parishioner Involvement, which was a staff-level, volunteer position. She helped organize and revitalize parish ministries and helped individual parishioners find the best way to use their time and talents at the parish. She has stepped down from that position but will continue to play an active part in parish life in many ways. I am very grateful for all that she has done in this capacity.

  5. Next Wednesday we begin the Lenten season with Ash Wednesday. For the schedule of Ash Wednesday services and a list of important activities during this holy season, make sure to visit the front page of the parish website and click the “Lent & Easter Schedule” button.

2021 Pastoral Report

Martha Perez has put together a beautiful report of our parish life together in 2021. It is an overview with highlights of how we have fulfilled our mission to love, pray, serve, and proclaim Christ. The format is a digital flip book. You can view it here, or even better, go to our parish website on your desktop computer or tablet to see it on a larger screen.

I am excited for what God will do with us in 2022. We will begin construction of our new Discipleship Center, but we don’t know exactly when, since we are waiting on the San Diego City planning department to complete a review of our permit application.

In February, we will have our first parish book read. We have purchased 50 copies of Awake, Not Woke: A Christian Response to the Cult of Progressive Ideology, by Noelle Mering. I heard Ms. Mering speak at a gathering of seminarians last December and I was impressed enough to read her book. It is excellent. I had been waiting for a systematic analysis of this phenomenon from a Catholic perspective. Parishioners will be able to register for the book read which includes a copy of the book. We will meet in the parish hall four times, with each participant having read in advance a section of the book. I will offer some comments and then parishioners will break into small groups to discuss the book section. Registration will be available through a link provided on the parish Mighty Network next week.

Finally, I ask for your prayers for our upcoming Good Life retreat at St. John the Evangelist Parish in Encinitas. After having done the Good Life for many years here at OLMC and seeing its fruits, I sensed God was calling us to share it with another parish. Since I am good friends with the pastor at St. John, he agreed to host it there. On the Feast of the Epiphany, I preached at all of the Masses at St. John and was received warmly. We have a full retreat. A retreat team from the parish, including the retreat coordinator, small group leaders, and music and prayer ministers, will be conducting the retreat.

Many Blessings

Greetings on this Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary! O Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee.

The Organ is Coming Back
We recently hired Tony Gril to play the organ at the 8am and 9:45am Sunday Masses. He’s a very talented musician whose gifts will greatly enhance our worship of God. The organ is the preferred musical instrument in Catholic tradition. Its powerful timbre has long been associated with sacred music, as distinct from secular music.

St. Patrick’s Lorica (Breastplate)
We have recently recorded a recitation, with low music in the background, of this cherished prayer of the great missionary of Ireland, St. Patrick. You can listen to, download, and read the prayer here. I have recently been praying this as part of my morning prayer. I love its expression of faith, appreciation of the grandeur of creation, explicit petition to be united to and guided by God in every way, centering on Christ, and direct prayers against all dangers. Many exorcists recommend this prayer to defend against the wiles and snares of the enemy. Listening to this is a great way to start your day.

Built on Rock Update/ End of Year Gifts
We have exceeded our initial $4 million goal for our Built on Rock Capital Campaign which means that we are reasonably assured of the ability to build and pay for our Phase II Discipleship Center. We will continue the active part of the campaign until the end of the year. The more income we receive to the building fund, the sooner we will be able to complete the campus with the Phase III Parish Center, which will include a new hall, a Blessed Sacrament Chapel, new offices, and more. For all of you who have pledged, thank you again.

Many of you are considering making donations at the end of the year. Besides giving money directly, gifts can be made through stock transfers and in other ways. Some of these have substantial tax benefits. Please click here for more details about special gifts.

Donut Ministry
As previewed in my last blog post, OLMC is looking for volunteers to assist with the distribution of donuts after the 8am and 9:45am Masses. Service will start at the end of Mass and continue for about 30 minutes. Volunteers will serve with a partner once per month. Training and support are provided. This is a wonderful way to serve your brothers and sisters in Christ and to get to know them better. If you are willing to serve, please email olmcdonuts@gmail.com with your name, mobile number, and Mass time preference.